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Steven Shults's avatar

goosebumps when your mom pulled you in for a hug. glad you're able to share it, and the timing is so apt. loving your writing, as always. ❤️

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MaryJane's avatar

thank you so much Steven. she did her best, and it was absolutely the best in this case. ❤️❤️

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Carol L. Clark's avatar

That this guy would lie to you about being sterile just to get you into bed? That is grotesque. Thank you for sharing your information and concern about our American girls and women. Blessings to you.

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MaryJane's avatar

he was a real dud. i'm so glad i'm not tied to him in any way. thank you Carol.

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A.Darcy's avatar

You took me back to a very specific time

I know those basement

Those guys

Those lies

❤️

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MaryJane's avatar

this is a poem for every 14 year old girl ❤️

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J. Jones's avatar

Thanks for sharing MJ. I'm so glad toy had the support of yoyr mom in that moment. We all know that not everyone has that, I understand more fully now,why this work is so important to you personally. It can't be easy to keep putting yourself out there like this...it's very important, and appreciated. 💗💪🏼

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MaryJane's avatar

thank you so much Jess, putting it out there has been healing for the most part, but it is scary to feel vulnerable sometimes so i really appreciate this from you 😌🫶

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Kirsten's avatar

Thank you for this personal story! As a fellow Canadian who attended catholic school, you were not alone in needing abortion services. So many classmates did. What a testament to your strength and maturity. And thank god for Canadian abortion laws. Sending hugs

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MaryJane's avatar

so many stories we weren't allowed to tell. thank you so much Kirsten ❤️

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Pamela Elkow's avatar

Thank you so very much for sharing your story.

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MaryJane's avatar

thank you so much for reading it Pamela ❤️❤️

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Lizzie O’Leary's avatar

I did not know this story and so appreciate you telling it — also, I so appreciate your mom’s support 🥰!

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MaryJane's avatar

thank you so much Lizzie! so good to be connected with you ❤️

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GG Sauvage's avatar

Soooo beautifully did you articulate the nuances, here bb. Love you so much and very grateful for the art you create out of your experiences 👏 💜

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MaryJane's avatar

grateful for you, thank you GG! ❤️

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Shawna's avatar

Thank you for writing this!

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MaryJane's avatar

thank you so much Shawna! ❤️

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Susan's avatar

Well said! And big respect for your mom!

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MaryJane's avatar

thank you so much Susan! my mom has always been supportive of my being an independent person with good options ❤️

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Susan's avatar

Wonderful Mom!

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Wendy Flynn's avatar

Thanks for sharing. It really is a human right.

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